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Workplace loneliness: a guide to helping lonely employees
Factors contributing to loneliness at work
Previous recent from Totaljobs revealed an epidemic of loneliness at work, with 60% of people in a survey saying they had experienced loneliness in the workplace. As many as a quarter of employees have actually left their jobs due to feeling lonely. Understanding what’s fuelling this is vital if you’re going to address the feelings of loneliness amongst your team members effectively. Let’s take a look at some of the key factors that contribute to workers experiencing loneliness at work.Working location
Gallup’s study found that working location was the biggest driver behind levels of loneliness. The reduced social contact that those who do home and hybrid working causes social isolation and can make employees feel disconnected from their team and organisation.Age
The research also found that younger workers tended to have higher levels of loneliness than their older colleagues. This could be due to more younger workers working from home or with a hybrid schedule.Work-related pressure
Totaljobs’ research dug further into the reasons for workers feeling lonely, with a key one being high levels of work-related pressure. Some 44% of workers surveyed said this was a driver for loneliness at work, with the pressure causing two-thirds of lonely employees higher levels of stress, and a similar number to suffer from low self-esteem.Not fitting in
Another key cause of loneliness is workers not feeling that they fit in with their team members. This can be exacerbated by a poor culture at work, and hiring workers who do not fit into the culture of the workplace.Impact of loneliness in the workplace
Loneliness at work can have a negative impact not just on your employees, but on your organisation too. Here are the key problems with high levels of loneliness at work:- Higher levels of absenteeism: A third of lonely workers have called in sick as a result of their loneliness. This means that last year alone, workers took on average five sick days off work due to the implications of loneliness and poor mental health.
- More burnout: Loneliness can be caused by stress at work, but loneliness also increases stress levels and negative mental health impacts. Ongoing high stress levels can lead to burnout.
How employers can tackle loneliness in the workplace
Many employees believe that workplace loneliness carries a stigma, which will only discourage them from speaking out. It is essential that employees feel supported and able to raise any issues as they see fit. Here are some ways to address loneliness in your workplace.Listen to employees
Our research found that those who have not shared their feelings of loneliness with a colleague or manager believe that if they did, it could negatively impact their career (13%) or they would face discrimination (9%). With this in mind, making employees aware they can confide in someone at work is crucial. You could partner with a mental health charity and highlight any initiatives they are leading in. This raises awareness of difficulties such as loneliness in the workplace and also allows fellow colleagues to play their own role in creating a caring environment. Facilitating a culture of active listening where employees’ voices are given space and are listened to is vital to making this happen.Check in with employees
Samaritans highlight the importance of asking colleagues if they’re okay and taking the time to truly engage in the conversation that follows. They explain the importance of being an active listener:“Our Wellbeing in the City resource brings Samaritans’ listening skills into the workplace. The online learning tool, developed with Lord Mayor’s Appeal, gives employees the skills to intervene when someone is struggling, actively listen and manage difficult conversations. It also helps staff manage their own mental wellbeing.”
Alleviate pressure
If there is evidence that the health of an employee is being affected – or worsened – by workload or the working environment, employers have a responsibility to step in. A vicious cycle can begin if an employee feels lonely because of a heavy workload that leads to them staying behind at work. 38% of respondents say their struggles with loneliness affect their productivity. Samaritans highlight that, “Heavy workloads, tight deadlines and lack of managerial support are the main factors causing work-related stress, anxiety and depression. If people feel they have no one to turn to when they are feeling overwhelmed, it can lead to depression and feelings of not being able to cope.” 47% of millennials aged 22-37 claim pressure is the leading cause of their loneliness (compared with 39% of baby boomers aged 54-72). This is followed by not feeling like they fit in – 46%, compared with 32% of boomers. It is important to remember all levels of employees need to be supported in this way. Managers need to be trained to recognise evidence of loneliness and exclusion or withdrawal from social situations, to look after employees’ mental health and also to manage their performance.Prioritise team building
With remote and hybrid work so much more a part of the norm, organisations need to be intentional about creating opportunities for team members to build relationships at work. Virtual team building activities can help employees feel close to their colleagues even when working from different locations. There are plenty of options to consider, including:- regular virtual coffee chats
- online game sessions
- remote lunch-and-learn events
Respect confidentiality
One reason some employees feel uncomfortable sharing feelings such as loneliness with their colleagues or manager is fear of judgement and gossip. Discussing personal information can be a sensitive subject, so employers must respect the needs of their employees. Make them aware of support systems in place in HR, and make an effort to check in on them regularly, but do not discuss the information with anyone other than the employee unnecessarily, as this is likely to make them feel more isolated.Receive the latest resources and advice to boost your hiring
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